Your first meeting with a compensation solicitor, Yowie Bay

Most people engage a solicitor in a few stages rather than all at once. There's the first contact, often a phone call. There's a first meeting, by phone, video or in person, where the solicitor hears what happened and reads your documents. Then come the costs documents to read and sign. Once that's done, the solicitor starts requesting records and contacting the insurer on your behalf.

Some people engage a solicitor after months of handling the claim themselves. Others do it in the first weeks after a serious crash. Either way, the start is similar. Before the first contact, jot down the key dates, what the insurer has decided and what you're hoping the solicitor can help with. It makes the conversation shorter and more useful for both of you.

Expect the first meeting to feel more like a structured conversation than an interview. The solicitor needs enough of the story to judge whether they can help, and enough of the paperwork to spot any deadline that's close. They'll often take notes as you talk and ask to keep copies of your documents. It's also your chance to ask how they would approach the claim.

You generally don't have to decide anything at the first meeting. It's common to take the costs documents away, read them properly and come back with questions. If you'd like a family member or friend with you for support, that's usually fine; let the solicitor know beforehand. Some people write down the answers as they go, since a lot of information arrives at once.

• Confirms the accident date and which rules apply
• Checks whether any deadline is close
• Reads the insurer's letters and decisions
• Notes which records are missing

A common worry is that engaging a solicitor will upset the insurer. It generally shouldn't. Insurers deal with solicitors all the time, and in many claims correspondence simply starts going to the solicitor instead of to you. Decisions are still made under the scheme rules. What changes is that someone familiar with those rules reads each letter before you act on it.

Engaging a solicitor doesn't mean you can't answer your phone. If your case manager calls about payments or a routine request, you can generally talk it through as usual. Where a conversation turns to fault, settlement or anything that needs your signature, it's reasonable to say you'd like your solicitor involved and to ask for the request in writing.

Before or soon after you engage a solicitor, you should generally receive a written costs disclosure. It explains how the solicitor's costs will be worked out, gives an estimate of the total where they can, and usually sets out what you can do if you have a question or a concern about costs later. It's information rather than a contract, but it tells you what to expect.

Once you're comfortable with the disclosure, you'll usually be asked to sign a costs agreement. This is the contract between you and the solicitor about costs. There's no need to sign it on the day you receive it. Read it in your own time, ask someone you trust to look over it, and write down your questions. A solicitor should be willing to explain any clause in plain English.

Most solicitors who work on motor accident claims are used to meeting clients by phone or video. It suits people who are in pain, can't drive yet, live far away or are juggling work and family. You'll usually be sent a link or a call time in advance. Find somewhere quiet, have your documents nearby, and keep a notepad handy for anything you want to remember.

Before a remote meeting, check the technology rather than the dress code. Test the video link, charge your phone and have your documents within reach. If a family member is helping you, let the solicitor know they're joining. Afterwards, you'll generally receive a summary or the next documents by email, which you can read in your own time.

Expect some paperwork in the early weeks. Authorities to release your records, forms confirming your details, perhaps a questionnaire about your injuries and how they affect your day. Return them promptly, because the solicitor can't request records without them. As information comes in, they'll start to form a view of your claim and what it needs next.

By the end of the first few weeks, you should generally have a clearer idea of the plan. That might include which records are still to come, which decisions could be challenged, what evidence may be needed and when the next contact will be. If you haven't heard anything about next steps, it's reasonable to ask. A short email is usually enough.

• Signing authorities to release your records
• A request to the insurer for copies of its file
• Questions about your earnings before the accident
• A written outline of the next steps